Tuesday, January 3, 2012

TMI Tuesday - 1/3

Happy New Year!

1. Finish this sentence: In the New Year, I hope to......
......continue to explore and expand my horizons in as many ways as opportunity presents.

2. Do you make New Year’s Resolutions? If yes, what are they for 2012?
I never make New Year's Resolutions. Every day is a new day with the ability to start fresh and change what you didn't like about yesterday. I don't need to wait a whole year for that.

3. What New Year’s resolutions did you make last year?
I didn't make any.

4. Think of three of those resolutions, from last year. How did you do in keeping them?
See #3

5. What was your most memorable sexual happening/experience in 2011?
In one of our many early conversations about what things we'd like to try with each other, L asked me about anal sex and I said absolutely not. I had a very bad experience with anal sex when I was young and was traumatized to even think about it. As L and I were together longer and I grew to trust him, I finally told him about my experience and he understood why I was so against trying it, but he also explained to me that it wasn't supposed to be that way. I read a lot about it and we also talked about it a great deal over a long period of time before I decided I'd be interested in trying it with him. Even then, he didn't jump on it right away. We worked up to it gradually over the course of many months until one day as we lay snuggling together, I asked him if we could try it right then. I wrote about that day here . There was a lot of fear and emotion linked to that act and I am very grateful that L is the man he is - that he was able not only to help me to deal with what happened and put it behind me but to also make the act into something that I have come to enjoy.

Bonus: What was your most memorable experience (activity, event, etc.) in 2011?
I had so many wonderful and memorable experiences in 2011 it would be hard to pick just one. We had many wonderful picnics, got to cook for each other, travel...and the list goes on. It was truly a great year and I hope 2012 can be even half as good.

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  1. We are also hoping to expand our (sexual) horizons in 2012. I (Jack) also don't make New Year's resolutions, and I appreciate your reasoning as to why you don't. Very well said. Your answer to #5 is touching and beautiful; Jill once had a very bad experience with anal, and although it didn't break her stride, really, I am very cautious and mindful when we have it.

    We wish you both a very happy 2012!

  2. Interesting that you don't bother with resolutions. I failed spectacularly one year so I would learn how to scale back to more realistic goals. Great TMI answers.

  3. I am also hoping to expand my horizons in the coming year. That introduction to anal sex sounds so sweet! Sir is taking his time with me as well, we fingure it will eventually happen but He is in no rush :)

    Here's to a great 2012!

    ~Kazi xxx

  4. L was very brave to take on getting you over your fear of anal sex. I am so glad that you are now able to experience this as something good, with a trusted partner.

    Happy New Year V and L



  5. Having never done anal and having always been intrigued by it, this post makes me want it even more. Good to know you now like it.

    I with you on the new years resolutions