Tuesday, May 29, 2012

TMI Tuesday - 5/29

It's Just a Fantasy!

1. If your lover was turned on by forced feminization would you participate (giving or receiving)? *forced feminization is the practice of enforcing activities on a male, which are typically associated with women, to make him submissive. For example: wearing lingerie, heels, make-up.
Hell, yeah!  I love to make L's fantasies come to fruition.

2. When you have sexual dreams or fantasies that are aggressive or cruel, does it worry you?
Not in the least.  I mull them over in my mind and think about what's hot about them...and when I have it figured out I talk to L and we think about how we can work them into our play, if at all practical.  Sometimes I can't work it out on my own and he offers an interesting insight - he's an extremely smart and astute man.

3. Tell us your hottest filthiest fantasy, right now, in 100 words or less. This is the fantasy about your desires that you probably never share, maybe they even go against your morals, or are societal taboos.
Oh my...really?  I conferred with L and he assured me that none of my fantasies were at all filthy, anti-moral or taboo. :P

4. Which super hero would you like to have sex with? Why?
a. Aquaman
b. Superman
c. Wonder Woman
d. She-Ra
I don't really know my super heroes, but that Wonder Woman is smoking hawt!!  She could put her Lasso of Truth around me and find out all my secret fantasies and report back for #3.

5. Knowing there’s a hot young couple in the adjoining hotel room, would you press your ear against the wall to hear the action on the other side?
Probably not.  We'd be more likely to be making our own action on our side of the wall and have those young chits pressing their ears on the wall, amazed at how freaky "those old people" are.

6. Do you think the lure to live out sexual fantasies or have sex frequently is amplified by technology? Briefly explain.
An interesting question...and probably true.  We use the internet to chat with each other, watch porn together, to find and share things we're interested in trying and to read all kinds of articles of a sexual nature. I had a very sheltered upbringing and quite frankly, some of the things that I've seen on the internet (and tried!) I could never have imagined!  We cover a ton of stuff when we aren't together.  Yes, some are day-to-day mundane things, but often there are discussions about us and what we like/dislike/want/don't want to try.  Sometimes this results in being prepared to make the most of our assignations, to incorporate fantasy elements, or even simply to make us more horny for each other.  Skip back 40 years and compare.....

Bonus: Describe your fantasy life in three (3) words.
Hot as fuck.

Friday, May 18, 2012

L's NPotW - Prima Donna in the Forest

After lunch the sun, the river sounds and the walk through the woods made us lusty and we ended up having each other for dessert.  Here's where V's underwear ended up.  Her lingerie lady would be horrified if she saw V's new panties on the forest floor!

Prima Donna in the forest

V says:  I thought I should clarify that while my bra and panty set ARE Prima Donna, I myself can NOT be described as such. :)

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Tuesday, May 15, 2012

TMI Tuesday - 5/15

Eating Out!

You are having dinner at the best restaurant you can imagine. Do not concern yourself with over-eating, or other restrictions. We want to know what you like best. What will you have for:

1. Before dinner wine, aperitif, or cocktail? 
I'm not much of a drinker, so I'd probably pass on this.

2: Appetizer?
Shrimp cocktail
3. Soup?
I don't think I've met a soup I didn't like, but French Onion soup is a real treat for me.

4. Salad?
Garden salad with French dressing.
5. Wine or other beverage with dinner? 
Usually when we go out for a special dinner like this, L would order us a bottle of wine along with some water.  On my own, probably more like iced tea.

6. Entree?
If I'm very hungry, I always crave red meat.  Of course, at this stage, after having had soup and salad, I'd be stuffed.  But imagining that not being an issue, prime rib au jus with lots of horseradish would be wonderfully yummy.  

7. Side Dishes?
Baked potato with sour cream and butter (we said no restrictions, right?) and lots of steamed vegetables.

8. Dessert?
My favourite - créme brûlé

9. After dinner drink?
Trust me, the wine in #5 will have been plenty, unless you want me to start a strip tease on the table.

10. Which 3 people would you invite to dinner: (must be famous, well-known, living or dead, not fictional)
For sex appeal - Josh Holloway (he oozes sex)
For great conversation - Barack Obama (I'd be interested in having a conversation with him)
Because you detest them - Ann Coulter (though my head would probably explode long before I finish my appetizer)

Bonus: Your lover brings you breakfast in bed. What’s on the tray?
I'm sure it would include all my favourite things, as he's very thoughtful that way...and I'd be delighted.  Even more so if it comes with two forks - I like to share.

Friday, May 11, 2012

L's NPotW - Prostate Play

L is away on business, so I get to choose the Naughty Picture this week 
(she said, as she rubbed her hands together in glee!)

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Tuesday, May 8, 2012

TMI Tuesday - 5/8

M is for Masturbation!

1. How often do you masturbate?
Nowhere near as often as some of my fellow bloggers....maybe once or twice per week or so, particularly if I'm having trouble falling asleep.

2. What are you doing to celebrate Masturbation month?
Nothing special.

3. Do you like to watch your partner masturbate?
a. Yes, it turns me on.
b. Sometimes, because it gets my partner very aroused.
c. Not really, it’s boring.
d. No, it’s a turn off.
e. I’ve never experienced it but I’d like to.

a.  Yes, I love watching L masturbate.  It's not something we do when we're together, but certainly over a webcam when we're away from each other.

4. Do you let your partner watch you masturbate?
a. Yes, it turns me on to be watched.
b. Sometimes, because it gets my partner very aroused.
c. No, it’s embarrassing.
d. I’ve never experienced it but I’d like to.

I'm not at all inhibited about masturbating in front of L - and I have done it - but I don't think it's particularly arousing for him.

5. Mutual masturbation? Yay or Nay?

Yay!  Love it - it's a great lead up to sex.

6. If you had an all-expense-paid trip to San Francisco to attend Masturbate-a-thon 2012 would you go and masturbate? Why or Why not?

I would not - it's not really my thing.  I think I've explained before that rather than offering any satisfaction, masturbation often seems to sharpen my need for sex considerably, which makes life more challenging when I may need to wait a week for that relief.


The Center for Sex & Culture
Sunday, May 27, 10am-midnight
Arrive by 9pm $40 minimum self-sponsorship; or bring sponsorship form with pledges All genders, all orientations welcome to explore self-pleasure in a supportive group environment. Check the next newsletter for more detail about this year’s Thon, and join us to Come for a Cause! All donations and pledges support CSC’s operations and programs.

Bonus: Are you addicted to masturbating?

Definitely not, though if I was getting no sex at all, I'd certainly masturbate much more often than I do.

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Friday, May 4, 2012

L's NPotW - White Top, Plaid Skirt, Cropped Cheeks!

They say a picture is worth 1000 words....you be the judge.

Read about it here and here

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Tuesday, May 1, 2012

TMI Tuesday - 5/1

The Here & Now 

1. Are you wearing any jewelry? What?
I wear quite a bit of jewelry all the time.  I have six piercings, but in addition to all those orifices being filled, I also wear an anklet and bracelets...but no rings, except the one on my toe.

2. What are you listening to now?
The sound of my fingernails on my keyboard, while I answer these questions and chat with L.

3. What is the last piece of entertainment media (i.e., cd, download, book, DVD) that you purchased? Do you recommend it?
I don't buy CD's or DVD's really, so it would have to be a book.  I received a shipment just today with 6 books, but 5 of them were for my sister, as she mentioned a series she was interested in reading, so I bought them for her.  The sixth is for me, but I can't tell you the name of the book, since I've been blabbing about it around here for the last month.  It's a self-help book, which I don't normally go for, but if this plan works for me, I promise I'll circle back and sing its praises!

4. What kind of undergarments are you wearing right now? Care to post a photo?
Black lace bra, black thong.  No picture, I'm too warm and cozy to get up and take one.

5. What is your current mood?
Perhaps a bit reflective.  Today was a crazy day, full of change and redirections.

6. What is the best looking thing about you today?
My hands.  I've been using tons of hand cream lately and it's paying off.  Also those too-long (for me!) nails actually look very nice...and there are 10 of them, all at the same time!  Unheard of!

7. Fill in the blank. Tonight I’m looking forward to _tomorrow_ . 

Bonus: Tell me something good…anything you want to share. Just do it ————-
My VCH piercing healing period is over...time to test drive this baby!  (Hence #7)

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