TMI Tuesday - 11/8

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1. Do you have a set of dishes that are used for special occassions (e.g. china)? Yes or no. If yes, how often do you use the special dishes?
a. any day because every day is special
b. once a week
c. only for holidays and celebration
d. never, it is displayed in a china cabinet or collecting dust in a box in the attic
Yes, I collect a lovely British china, each piece patterned with its own unique flora. My response is C - I generally only use them for holidays and celebrations, however sometimes I just feel like pampering myself and will eat my lunch or have a hot drink using them. They are very pretty, but not particularly fancy and could easily be used for every day, however they are fairly expensive. Since I'm not the only one handling then, I'd hate to have them mistreated and suffer occasional breakage like the everyday stuff does.

2. Do you have clothes that you never wear because you are saving them for a special occasion? What is that item of clothing? What would be the appropriate occasion?
I don't really have any clothing that I don't wear, though I have things that I don't wear often. Not every piece of clothing is suitable for every occasion, of course, so some are worn more than others. I pretty much own the bare minimum clothing, though - I really don't need much, except that I perhaps have an inordinate number of matching bra and panty sets.

3. If you suddenly became very wealthy, which servants would you employ?
a. cleaning service
b. housekeeper
c. cook
d. valet/maid/lady-in-waiting
e. chauffeur
f. dog-walker
g. other
There's a good chance the answer would be "none", but for this purpose, I'll say that I'd employ a housekeeper. I enjoy cooking and cleaning, but I'm a very busy person and could use the help. Since there are some tasks that I like completed in a very particular way, I'd prefer a housekeeper to a cleaning service, as a housekeeper would be around enough to learn how I like things done.

4. If you were wealthy, how many homes would you own? Where? (locations–mountains, tropical places for the winter, foreign country/city)
I suspect I'd own one home and then rent as required wherever I wanted to be at any given time. That would afford me maximum flexibility to go wherever I wish and still maintain a home base.

5. If you were going to take on a really expensive hobby, which of these would it be?
a. buy an airplane
b. buy a yacht
c. buy a small winery
d. raise exotic animals
I've always wanted to learn to pilot a plane - it's one of my dreams - but I would probably buy a yacht. Being on the water sooths my soul.

6. What kind of car would you buy if you had an unlimited budget?
a. expensive sports car
b. luxury car
c. monster truck
d. expensive hybrid or electric car
e. cheap car (I’d be too nervous driving an expensive car).
f. something for the chauffeur to drive me around in
I love driving, so the car I chose would not be based on budget per se, but would be based on handling, speed, responsiveness, etc. Since you get what you pay for, I expect that might be an expensive car, but I wouldn't be picky about what form that car took, only that I'd seriously enjoy driving it!

Bonus: Currently, what is your favorite luxury item or decadent thing that you do?
I'm a simple person and for the most part I like simple things. I can't think of anything luxurious or decadent that I do on a regular basis, though I have indulged in luxury and decadence at times. For example, a couple times L and I have enjoyed a couples massage at an excellent, but expensive spa in our city.

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He said:Fucking and Spanking

I am on a quest to bruise V's bottom. That sounds terrible, doesn't it? She wants it as much as I do. She wears her hickeys and bite mark decorated back, arms and breasts like badges of honour. Now before you think I am batshit crazy I should add that hard biting is a relatively rare occurrence in our sexual repertoire. The occasional hard nipple bite to push V over the edge when she is teetering on the edge of orgasm. I try to avoid leaving marks where they will be hard to hide or explain and have tried in the past to give V a butt bruise or two for her to admire between meetings.

I decided that the best way to prepare her was to give her a good hard fucking before embarking on my butt bruising quest. Before we started I surprised V by giving her a good hard smack with the riding crop across her jean covered ass, just to show her who was boss. We stripped down, kissed until I was hard and then I mounted V and rode her hard and fast.

She was wearing her "I'm getting fucked and I like it" expression. I was riding high on her body which gives her the clitoral stimulation she likes so much. She was getting close so I gave her nipple a few good sucks and then clamped down with my teeth. V went off like a rocket and I quickly followed.

After we cleaned up I instructed V to lie over my lap and I went to work on her backside. First I started off with my hand. First one cheek then the other. After a few good smacks my hand began to sting so I switched to the ping pong paddle. V isn't so enamored of the paddle which is why I liked it. V squirmed as I alternated between cheeks and sides of the paddle.I could hear V's sharp intake of breath as the paddle landed. I would occasionally not alternate cheeks but land three or four good thwacks before switching. I knew that anymore than that and V wouldn't be able to take it anymore and would call yellow light and have me show down.

By now her ass was glowing red and was warm to the touch. I switched to the piece de resistance and cropped V's naked ass on each cheek with the end of the crop. She exclaimed slightly, which is unusual for her, she likes to stay in a relaxed head space. Our time together was running out so I took a few pictures and we began to pack up. The redness was already beginning to fade and I knew the quest for V's bruised butt badge would have to be continued another day.

She said: Reconnection

V: What are you planning to do to me today?
L: I'm going to fuck you and spank you - and not necessarily in that order.

So I knew what to expect that evening, based on our IM conversation earlier in the day. I was excited to get to spend some play time with L. We had had opportunities to be together over the past couple weeks and as happy and fun as those times were, I really missed the play time. As soon as I got the "all clear", I went inside. L met me at the door to our play area and handed me a couple bags and a box to take in with me while he returned to his office for our Mischief Bag. I went in and put down all the stuff, including the bag I had brought, and went ahead and spread the blanket, which I saw peeking out the top of one of his bags.

Just as I finished that, L came through the door. We talked a bit, catching up as we undressed. As I bent to remove my pants, I felt the sting of L's riding crop across my ass. I gasped and stood up. L grinned and reminded me that he did say "not necessarily in that order". Laughing, we finished disrobing and adjourned to our makeshift bed. L lay on his side, his lower arm outstretched to pillow both our heads. I lay snuggled into him, my thigh sandwiched between his legs.

In this position, we kissed for a long time, gentle kisses where tongues touched and stroked each other, but also more aggressive kisses, where teeth grazed along unsuspecting lips. We continually snuggled in closer to each other, his hardening cock being firmly massaged between our undulating bodies. Finally it was time. I rolled backward onto my back and L climbed in between my open legs, sliding his cock into my pussy in one smooth movement.

As always, he was incredible. As his magnificent cock pistoned into me hard and fast, I could feel that familiar wave of sensation start to build, augmented by the stream of naughtiness he whispered to me as he fucked me. He teased me by gently biting my breasts - small nips and licks to my nipples. I think he sensed that I needed more, as he took my nipple between his teeth and bit down long and hard, rolling it between his unforgiving teeth. I sucked in my breath as the intense pleasure/pain shot through me. Wavelets of sensation became the great swell of a tidal wave as an orgasm of tsunami proportions swept over me. I stiffened and my moans of pleasure echoed in the large room. Sucked in on the surge, L also succumbed, driving his cock deep inside me. Shattered, we both collapsed together, all intertwined arms and legs and I kissed his head where it lay on my breast.

After a short while, we separated to clean up. Somewhat recuperated from our activities, L grabbed the bags and box and brought them over to the blanket, near where our Mischief Bag lay open. In the box were items that we had received from Eden Fantasys for review. In the bags were items that we had removed from the Mischief Bag to take on trips or to use during park lunches - condoms, lube, vibrators and the like. We packed everything away in the Mischief Bag, eliminating all of the extra bags.

Hungry now, we decided to get something to eat. I went and got the bag I had brought which contained food and we had an indoor picnic, sitting cross-legged on our blanket. As we talked and ate, L sifted around in the contents of the Mischief Bag. Finishing our snack, I stored all the garbage into a plastic bag along with some garbage we cleaned out of the Mischief Bag - packaging from toys, etc. L took me by the hand and pulled me so that I lay across his crossed legs. Settling me in comfortably, he spanked my bottom until I squirmed. After pausing for a few moments to soothe my butt with his hand, he resumed and again spanked me until I squirmed again, seeking relief. Then he reached into the Mischief Bag... and grabbed the dreaded ping pong paddle.

He was kind enough to ask which side he should use - one side still has its textured rubber covering, while the other has lost its covering and is down to the bare wood - but then ignored my choice. He swatted me twice with the bare side (which stings considerably less), then turned it over and continued with the textured rubber side. Whenever I would start to squirm, he would continue, but switching sides of the paddle. Finally I told him I'd had enough.

He stopped and he moved me down off his legs to lay on my stomach on the blanket. He inspected my bottom and though pink, it was not likely to have any bruising. How disappointing! So L picked up his crop and started another round with it. He only struck me with the cane part once or twice, choosing instead to further pink up my ass with the tabbed end. He then took a picture to show me. I think we both find it more than a little disappointing that while a spanking he administered to his friend Theodora yielded some spectacular bruises, I never seem to get any no matter how he tries. I often have bite mark bruises on my breasts, arms and sometimes on my back, but even his bites don't bruise my ass! I guess I have Ass of Steel.

By now it was getting late and we had to wrap up for the night. I reluctantly got dressed and we packed up all our stuff, pausing for a brief kiss before I left. We had no real idea of when our next meeting would be, just that we hoped it would be soon!

He said:Fucking and Spanking not quite yet

Why the crap is Blogger so bloody irritating to use? I try to schedule a post and the damn thing posts it right away. It messes up my cunning plans and makes me look like a complete blogging noob. I wonder if Wordpress is less user abusive. Ok, rant is done. Come back in a few hours for the real post.

Our HNT #50

I always thought L was over-reacting to my biting his nipples, however
looking at this picture, it actually does seem kind of lethal.....

Ouch!

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TMI Tuesday - 11/1

Let’s Talk about Sex

1. What sexual act arouses you the most? For that matter, what nonsexual act arouses you the most?

Kissing arouses me more than any other sexual act, especially if his hands are in my hair or cupping my face. Giving a blow job is a close second...and there are many other things that also arouse me greatly. I'm pretty easily aroused, I think. Non-sexually? I can be aroused with just the right look or comment or even just looking at L's ass in his tight jeans as he walks in front of me. I remember L once beckoned me to follow him with one finger at the same time as he gave me "the look" and I nearly wet myself on the spot....and I still get aroused just thinking about it!

2. What is your signature or “go to” move that is sure to get a lover in the mood for sex?

I'm not terribly subtle, I don't think - unless I'm feeling shy, I pretty much make it clear what I want. I don't really have "moves" as such. I asked L what move I make gets him in the mood for sex and his answer: "Get naked!" LOL

3. Do you queef?

I had to look this up....lol According to the Urban Dictionary, a queef is the expulsion of air during or after sexual intercourse as a result of a penis causing a vacuum within the vagina. Based on that definition, no, I don't queef. However, when I am really, really wet, like when sex continues after I've squirted, I do sometimes make very loud, squishy noises.

4. What’s the weirdest thing that’s happened to YOU as a result of your sex writings (e.g., blog, erotica, sex toy reviews)? (borrowed from Insatiabear)

As a result of them leaving comments, we discovered that someone we both know personally reads our blog. Thank goodness we remain anonymous and they have no idea that we are who we are! Kind of strange when we see them socially, though. hehehe

5. Have you ever had sex while someone watched?
…someone else was in the room?
…someone else in the bed, next to you and the person you’re having sex with?
What were the circumstances?

Yes, I have had sex while L's friend was in the room, sitting on a chair beside the bed. I have also sucked L's cock while the same friend sat on the bed beside him chatting. In both cases, she was being the voyeur after we tired her out during a threesome. She took pictures and video, which she gave us as a thank-you gift!

6. When it comes to sex, and discussing it with your teen have you or would you:
a. Let school sex education handle it
b. Hand the teen a book or point them to a website
c. Talk frankly and openly
d. Avoid it all together–society, friends, and the internet will give all the info needed

I have always been very open, frank and age-appropriate when discussing sex with my children. Growing up, sex was a very taboo subject in our home and I didn't want to be like that as a parent. I hated having to hide my sexuality - something I still have to do! I wanted my children to feel comfortable bringing their questions and problems to me and not feel embarrassed or ashamed to discuss them. From time to time, I have directed them to websites also to augment the discussion. It's our little secret though - the rest of the family would be horrified.

Bonus: Remember the song, “I’m too sexy?” What are you too sexy for?

Hmmm - can't think of an answer for this one. Fact is, I don't think I'm terribly sexy at all!

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Question: this is for each of you : how old were you when you had your first sexual experience?

Question: This is for each of you: How old were you when you had your first sexual experience?

V says: I've always been very sexual. I remember getting caught masturbating when I was just 7 or 8 years old - I think my poor mother is still in therapy for that. I remember she asked me why I was “doing that” and I responded “Because it feels good.” I can still see her moving her hand to her chest as she audibly gasped. Although that was the only time I was caught, I’m sure it wasn’t my first time and I know it wasn’t my last. As far as sexual intercourse is concerned, I was late to that party, and not by choice. I was kept on an extremely short leash and was incredibly sheltered until I was married off. Nonetheless I found a way around the stifling rules and had sex for the first time when I was 19.

L says: I've been pleasuring myself as long as I can remember. I didn't have carnal knowledge of a woman until I was 18, but not to worry - I'm making up for lost time with V.

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