TMI Tuesday - 6/26

Good Ol’ Summertime

TMI Tuesday questions submitted by Andee.

1. Summer is a time to escape, kick back and chill. What is your favourite way to relax when the warm weather hits?
I love picnics with L.  Normally once the weather is nice, we have regular lunchtime picnics.  We cook for each other or sometimes buy food and just spend our time cooking, eating and lazing on our blanket. Well, other stuff, too. ;)

2. Have you ever been to a drive-in movie theatre? My first date was to a drive-in movie, what is your best memory of these classic outdoor theatres?
I've never been to a drive-in movie.

3. Have you ever had a summer fling? How did it develop and why did it end?
Why wait for summer to have a fling!  Spring, fall and winter are also very fling-worthy seasons!  

4. Board shorts and bikinis leave something to the imagination, but have you ever tried a nude beach?
Yes!  Last summer, L and I made a few visits to a nearby nude beach.  We very much enjoyed the experience and wrote about it here.

5. What are your thoughts on the Speedo and the Wicked Weasel?
I don't have a problem with anyone wearing anything they want.  Frankly if people who have less than ideal bodies (and whose is perfect?) are sufficiently comfortable with their bodies to wear so little, I'm thrilled for them and only wish I had their confidence!  If I was hot, I'd probably wear a Wicked Weasel....why not?  Unfortunately, I'm not one of the aforementioned people who is comfortable with my unclothed body in a public space.  As for the Speedo..again, it's up to the preference of the wearer.  I just don't know what would happen if he got hard wearing one....not sure it would contain him as it should.

6. The warm weather is a great opportunity to “get busy” outdoors? Have you ever? Tell us about it.
We've built a whole blog on getting busy outdoors!  Okay...half a blog...lol  See here...and here...and here....and here.....and that's just to start!

7. Sunrise or sunset? Which is your summer favourite?
Although I'm a morning person, I'd have to say sunset.  You really have to wake up extremely early to catch a summer sunrise!

8. What is the one summer delight that really quenches your thirst? How about your lust?
Watermelon quenches my thirst - it's so refreshing!  L is a summer baby, so I'll call him my summer delight - he quenches my lust, in many different ways.

Bonus:  Summer is the time to participate in outdoor activities. Where would you most like to have sex :
– on the beach?
– at a picnic?
– camping?

Is it wrong that I've done two thirds of these already? :P  I think sex on the beach would be interesting and I'd certainly try it at least twice ;) but I'll bet that sand gets into every nook and cranny.  I've had picnic sex AND camping sex (well, tent sex on a day camping trip) and both were very enjoyable.  While I really enjoyed the tent sex, as it offered some privacy; I think my most memorable outdoor sex was on one of our picnics.  I was wearing a skirt, so provided easy access but able to quickly straighten up should someone come upon us.  I was amazed at L's daring when he completely removed and put aside his pants and underwear before fucking me!  Thinking about being discovered was a huge turn on!
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L's NPOTW - Fairy Tale?

You can keep the fairy tales...

...this is my kind of happy ending

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L's NPotW - Birthday Boobs!

I celebrated my birthday last month. These were one of my presents.

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TMI Tuesday - 6/12

We want to know what thing you’ve done the most times.

1. What sex position have you been in the most times?

I suspect I have had more missionary sex than any other kind.

2. What book have you read …?

Outlander by Diana Gabaldon

3. What movie have you watched …?

I rarely watch movies once, let alone twice.

4. In the last week, who have you texted … ? (no names, list the relationship or type of person)

L, my lover

5. In the last week, what food have you eaten …?

Scrambled eggs

6. Today, which website have you visited …?

Pinterest

7. When dining out, where have you eaten …?

My favourite sushi place.

8. Which sex toy have you used …?

Scorpi Diletto

Bonus:  Is there something you’d love to go back and relive in your sexual past?

(Thank you to Husband of Two Sexual Minds for this week’s bonus question)

Most of my sexual past is not worth reliving....but while I do from time to time think back to things I've done sexually in the more recent past when I've had the most enjoyable sexual times of my life, I still think I'd much rather direct my sexual energy to the present and the future than to relive the past.  It just keeps getting better!

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L's NPotW - Camping is Fun!

We continue with our outdoor theme with another pic from our

practice camping day.  V really liked it by the way.

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TMI Tuesday - 6/5

Think Kink!

1. What’s the kinkiest thing about you, either mentally or physically? 

I thought this was kind of a hard question.  I don't consider myself kinky as such, but the reality is that it's a comparative thing.  I'm kinkier than a straight vanilla, yes....but yet I know a lot of people who are far kinkier than I am.  L suggested that the kinkiest thing about me physically is my VCH piercing.

2. Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are they? 

Again a difficult question.  What a completely vanilla person may look at as a fetish, I may see as "normal".  Who's to say what is "normal" anyway?  I have lots of things I'm interested in and enjoy - anal sex, ass play, biting, spanking, wax play, consensual non-consent and the list goes on.  Are these fetishes...or are they just what makes me me?

3. Have you ever been spanked? Did you enjoy it? Tell us more… 

Why yes! Yes, I have.  L enjoys administering a good spanking and I certainly enjoy being on the receiving end of one too.  If you read our blog, there are many stories in there about spankings.

4. Have you been tied up, or tied someone else up? Did you use rope or  restraints? 

Again, if you read our blog, you'll know we're really into rope bondage.  We have several different types of rope - jute, nylon, silk, etc. - depending on the job at hand. Interestingly, except at a social gathering to learn and practice, I don't think I've ever tied L up with rope.

5. Would you classify yourself as more dominant, submissive, a switch or entirely vanilla? 

I'm a switch with very strong submissive tendencies.  I rarely top, but enjoy it when I do.  I'm a very in-charge person with strong leadership tendencies in my work life, so I enjoy relinquishing that responsibility when inside the bedroom.

6. What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done? 

Let's see - I've had completely naked sex in the quiet corner of a busy park, been filmed and recorded and photographed doing all types of sexual acts, been bitten, spanked, had my hair pulled, my ass fucked, my clitoral hood pierced, been penetrated with all manner of items, but I suppose the kinkiest thing I've done was to perform anal sex on another woman with a strap-on.  I've done the same to L too!

7. Have you been to a BDSM club? What was it like? If not, would you ever go to one? 

We have been to a BDSM club a few times.  We wrote about it here.

8. What’s your favourite fetish item or implement? 

I know if I asked L this question he'd say it was his crop.  I love our floggers best, though.

9. Favourite kinky clothing material? 

Leather, hands down.

10. Thigh boots – love ‘em or hate ‘em? 

LOVE them.  I have a pair and love to wear them in vanilla situations - it makes people wonder.

11. If you’re kinky, who knows about it? Do you tell people or is it a closely guarded secret?

Very few know. I have several close friends, but only two know that I'm so inclined, mostly because both of them have those same tendencies that I recognized and I've confided...to a point. With my situation and my ultra-conservative family, it's definitely a closely guarded secret.  Only L knows all.

12. What are your personal limits? 

I'd be willing to try just about anything at least twice.  I say that because there are things we've tried that I didn't like the first time, but I've come to enjoy.  I have no interest in coprophilia, but otherwise, I can't think of anything else I wouldn't have a go at, especially if L was interested in trying.

13. What’s your safeword and why did you choose that one? 

We just use yellow for "slow it down a bit...you're killing me" or red for "stop now please".  It's simple.

14. Which fetishes do you just really not get?

There are a few fetishes that I can't relate to - like coprophilia, foot fetishes, etc. - but then I'm sure some of the things that turn me on - and there are a few that are perhaps a bit odd - others wouldn't "get" either.

Bonus:  Complete this sentence:  To me, Fetish, Kink and BDSM means…a normal way of life.

L's NPotW - Naughty Campout

V had never been camping before, so I thought I'd break her in gently.  

We played hooky for a day and set up camp where I showed her the ropes.

She particularly liked the tent.

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