TMI Tuesday - 2/28

Sex.....and Romance

This week’s TMI Tuesday is about sex and romance. Who doesn’t enjoy a little romance or the art of seduction before engaging in sex? Often times the prelude is better than the actual ‘event’.

1. You are sitting alone in a restaurant because your lunch date is late. Do you:
a) Throw something and then make out with the waiter.
b) Check to make sure he or she didn’t get into an accident, then wait patiently for two hours and use the time to compose a love song or poem.
c) Send a nasty text followed up by a voice mail telling him/her that “romance is dead and so are you!”
d) Wait for 20 minutes, and then text-message a pal to join you for lunch.
First off, I'd never be sitting alone inside a restaurant waiting for someone - I'd far more likely be waiting outside. My expectation would be that if my lunch date were running late, they would have the courtesy to let me know. I don't mind 10-15 minutes late - sometimes something causes you to leave a few minutes late, or the traffic is bad or something - but any more than that and I expect to be contacted somehow. That being said, if there's reasonable explanation and providing I didn't have other commitments later on that would be in jeopardy, I would not be adverse to finding something else to do for an hour or two until my date could make it. I'm very understanding, but I don't like people disrespecting my time or taking me for granted. I strive to be punctual always and I'd expect the same respect for me and my time from my date.

2. What’s more important, a romantic relationship or your career?
I found this a hard question. Both could provide a great deal of satisfaction in one's life and I can certainly find many pros and cons for each side of that coin.

3. You love to role play in the bedroom, which one of these is more likely to be your kink?
a. Doctor and the naughty nurse
b. You’re the gardener, I’m the hoe
c. Persnickety principal and the wayward pupil that needs a spanking
d. Me Tarzan, you Jane
e. Scattered-brain boss and the seductive secretary
I think I'd be totally into d. with a little c. thrown in now and then just to spice things up.

4. When you want sex, who tends to make the first move?
a. Me! I like to go for what I want.
b. It varies. Sometimes my partner/significant other/date or sometimes me.
c. Oh definitely the other person. Even if I want it, I’m not about to admit such a thing.
d. I drop subtle hints hoping he/she will pick up on it.
I think L is an a. while I am a d., though I'm trying to improve on that. Fortunately for me, L is a very astute man and reads my d. like a book.

5. When it comes to lovemaking, select the answer that best describes you/your attitudes
a. vanilla – meets society’s middle of the road standards
b. adventurous
c. kinky
d. trisexual – I will try anything once, twice if I like it, three times to make sure. –Mae West
Well, all four of these play a part in our sex life. Sometimes there are time constraints or it's just been a while since we've been together and things turn out like a., however we are both adventurous and kinky and we do try things more than once, even if we didn't really like it the first time. L reminded me last week that the first time he spanked me, I didn't like it. :P

6. You want to seduce that sexy someone, what is the sweet-nothing that you’ll whisper in his/her ear?
Seduction isn't my forte, but I like "I want to suck your cock". It's to the point and hardly what I'd term a "sweet nothing", but it gets an "ok" every time and leads to so much more!

Bonus: What’s your idea of a romantic getaway?
Anywhere that offers the comfort and privacy we'd want to be able to spend time together combined with the opportunity to get out and do fun things outdoors.

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L's Naughty Picture of the Week, Red Cheeks

I bent her over the edge of the bed and fucked her....

but they were just too close to hand to leave unspanked.

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TMI Tuesday - 2/21

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We said: A Change'll Do Ya Good

The disappearance of the Granddaddy of infidelity bloggers in a puff of smoke along with the departure of other bloggers in my blog reading list highlights that blogs are like mushrooms - they pop up from nowhere and often disappear just as quickly. Disappear is perhaps the wrong word, though Granddaddy's blog did vanish. More often the bloggers just stop publishing new content with no explanation. Coming up with a unique view on our banging is often a struggle for me. It's always fun with V but making it fun for the reader can be tough.

We're planning to make some changes to our little blog. After a year and a half of writing about our shenanigans, we kind of feel a bit like our blog posts are getting repetitive and are probably not so entertaining to our readers. Trust me - for every motel afternoon we write about, there are three more we don't write about and for every visit to his workplace after hours that we write about, there are many more that we don't. Then there are many other things we don't - can't - write about, too - things that we've done and places we've gone - that would provide excellent blog fodder, but would be far too risky to share. The preservation of the relationship always takes precedence to us over the needs of the blog. The main tenets of our relationship are to experiment and push the boundaries of our sexuality and to have fun. Of course, we have other raison d'être, but those I mention are the primary ones that feed the blog. It seemed counterproductive to our relationship to be always with an eye to what's blog-worthy, since we were committed to posting weekly.

We are posting about similar scenarios all the time, though - lunchtime fun, after work fun and kinky fun with the odd visit to the track or a kinky party thrown in. Don't get me wrong - when L and I are together, things are not the least bit bromidic. The words kind, thoughtful, attentive and creative describe L as both a person and a lover. No matter what we're doing or where we're going - sexual or otherwise - there has never been a minute of time that I have spent with him where I didn't feel happy to be with him and I think I can safely speak for us both when I say that we greatly enjoy being together. We do wonder, however, how many times you can read about us having sex and still be entertained by it. How many different adjectives can be used to describe the pleasure he gives me? How many different ways can I explain how I try (and I hope, succeed) to make him feel cared for and appreciated, as he makes me feel? In other words, we are not bored, but we think you might be!

Our blog has had a very narrow view - a very specific purpose - and that has been to document our dalliances. We think we need to pull back a bit and capture a broader view. The changes at this point are not vast. What we propose to do is to continue to post L's Naughty Picture of the Week on Fridays, as well as participate in the TMI meme weekly on Tuesdays. We will also continue to answer any Formspring questions that come our way as candidly as we are able, though we have received very few of those. Although we have also decided to continue to post stories of our sexploits, after today they will not be appearing each and every Monday as they have always been. We will instead be posting stories as new boundaries are pushed and as things happen that we consider blog-worthy. We also hope to be able to introduce some new features that we have in the works.

We're not going away, though. I can wholeheartedly say that I have really enjoyed writing. It's something I had never done prior to the start up of this blog and am happy to have the outlet it allows. It's often quite difficult to be so happy about things with L and to not be able to share that joy with the people around you. This blog allows me to share just a bit of that joy with you, our readers and I thank you for reading and for the comments you share.

We'd welcome your feedback about our planned changes and any ideas you may have, things you'd like to read about or anything else you'd like to see here. We'll certainly consider any suggestions you have to spice things up and make them more interesting to you! Oh, and if you're reading, Granddaddy - we miss you!

L's Naughty Picture of the Week, Some Hair in the Hand...

When I pulled V's hair her response was "Harder" - What's a guy to do?

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TMI Tuesday - 2/14

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY

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Whether you celebrate Valentine’s Day or think it’s a consumer-oriented, manipulative and shallow interpretation of romance, just have yourself some fun by answering these TMI Tuesday questions.

1. Cupid is the god of desire, affection, and erotic love. As the myth goes, a person who is shot by Cupid’s arrow is filled with uncontrollable desire. On your behalf, who would you like Cupid to shoot?
I honestly can't think of anyone I'd want Cupid to shoot on my behalf, thank you very much.

2. Earlier in the evening you had dinner at the Fook Yue Chinese Restaurant. You are feeling quite amorous. You open a fortune cookie in the bedroom. Three fortunes appear:
1- “Your patience will be rewarded.” What would you like that reward to be?
Well, I'm in the bedroom, aren't I? My patience through dinner paid off!
2- “Try something new.” What is the something new you want to try?
A new sex position, of course. There are one or two that I wouldn't mind giving a go.
3- ” ’tis better to give than receive.” What would you like to give?
A full body massage.

3. If you were to write a special Valentine message (e.g., card, letter, etc.) what is that message?
I don't know - depends a ton on my mood.

4. Are you doing something special for Valentine’s day or is it just another day?
Valentine's Day is just another day for me. I've always been of the opinion that the people I love should be clear on that all year long and therefore it shouldn't be necessary for me to spend ridiculous amounts of money to show it. In my opinion, a simple card is sufficient, if we want to mark the day. Besides, I'm not much of a flower person, don't really care for chocolate and don't need any more "things" in my life.

5. You must give chocolate to your secret Valentine for Valentine’s Day. The chocolate is in the shape of your what?
I've bought L chocolate boobs several times. I think it's cute to watch him bite into them - and he seems to enjoy them!

Bonus:
You can make your own valentine heart candy. What is your message? (Go to this link. Create your candy. Post the generated Valentine candy on your blog).

I liked this - how cute!

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He said: A Little Bit Off the Top

When chatting with V I realized that she was in a a blue mood. Usually a few hugs and kisses will set her right so I offered to meet her at our favourite electronics store later that day. V is a bit of a gear head so even browsing the aisles of the electronics store will perk her up. When I arrived she was already waiting so we went inside and bought a few items then headed outside into the night. V asked if I wanted to go with her in her car so off we went to a secluded parking lot that we had visited in the past.

We hugged and kissed for a few minutes before V asked it I wanted her to suck my cock. How could I say no? V loves my hard cock in her mouth so I opened my pants and freed my cock from my underwear. V leaned over and took the head of my cock into her mouth. V usually takes as much in as she can but this time she was bobbing up and down with just the head in her mouth. At first I thought she was trying a new oral sex technique but it soon dawned on me that her fancy rental car was the cause of the change. The wide console and deep bucket seats meant she was stretched as far as she could and couldn't get any lower. V, always the trouper didn't complain, she simply redoubled her efforts to make me cum, using her hand to play with my balls. I did my best to scan the area for cars and people so we wouldn't disturbed. This distraction made V's task even more difficult because of my divided attentions but her magic mouth soon had me cumming. A quick cuddle and kiss and V took me back to my car.The spring was back in her step and there was a smile on her face as we exchanged a quick and hug and kiss before we went on our ways.