tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-64638253383476161022024-03-19T00:41:20.068-04:00The Dalliances of the Libidinous Man and the Voluptuous VixenLibidinous Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04597389593355542087noreply@blogger.comBlogger332125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-15213462803146010172013-03-19T00:01:00.000-04:002013-03-19T00:01:01.349-04:00TMI Tuesday - 3/19<h4>
<em><span style="color: grey;">This week’s TMI Tuesday questions were created by an anonymous blogger and lurker. He has submitted four great sets of questions and this week’s theme– THE GOOD, THE BAD AND THE UGLY– is no exception. Thank you Anonymous#1 <img alt=":)" class="wp-smiley" src="http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif?m=1129645325g" /> </span></em></h4>
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<strong><span style="color: black;">1. What made the best sex partner you’ve ever had so good?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: black;">He pays attention to my body and my reactions and takes the time to learn what I like and goes out of his way to make things special for me. He's experimental and willing to try new things. Sometimes, they are not the most comfortable things for him, but we talk about the concerns and work out in advance what the problem areas are and how we'll deal with them. He is open and easy to talk to about anything at all that's on my mind and is never judgemental. I do my best to reciprocate in all these areas and it fosters an incredible amount of trust and intimacy between us, which in turn makes for some incredibly fantastic sexual encounters.</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: black;">2. What made the worst sex partner you’ve ever had so bad?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: black;">Wow...where to start? He was a virgin with a very, very small penis (smallest I've ever since before or since). Those things alone are not so bad, but there's more. We had not known each other for very long and he was really doing everything possible to pressure me into bed. I finally gave in when I should not have. There was no connection with him on my side, but clearly he was besotted, pledging his undying love to me and indicating he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me during the act. Completely turned off at this point, I was anxiously waiting for it to be over, which it soon was. Then he threw up moments later. Seriously, you can't make this stuff up, folks!</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: black;">3. Who was the most physically attractive person you ever had sex with?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: black;">Including the young man mentioned in #2, <u>all</u> the men I've had sex with (that sounds like there have been hordes, but my number is pretty low - can be counted on one hand) are physically attractive to me in their own way. Excluding the young man in #2, I have been lucky that they have all been better than average sexually. They haven't always been exemplary human beings, however.</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: black;">4. How was it?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: black;">See #3.</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: black;">5. Who was the least physically attractive person you ever had sex with?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: black;">As mentioned in #3, all of the men I've had sex with have been physically attractive to me in one way or another. I'm having trouble thinking of any of them as being the "least" attractive of the bunch. To me, far more important than physical attraction is mental connection. I think that even a generally unattractive man with whom I have a great connection would have qualities that I'd find physically attractive. There is always something that works for me in a big way or they wouldn't be in my bed in the first place.</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: black;">6. Why did you do it?</span></strong><br />
I don't have sex with people because they are attractive, but rather because we have a special connection. This is always (and yes, #2 was the only exception to this) what works for me.<br />
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<strong><span style="color: black;">7. How was it?</span></strong><br />
Sex is mostly mental, so if I'm present and connected to the person, then the sex will usually be pretty great!<br />
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<span style="color: red;"><strong>Bonus</strong></span>: Describe a bad sexual experience you admit was your fault.<br />
I can only think of two bad sexual experiences I've had. One was definitely not my fault and I was completely not in control in that situation. The other, which is far less "bad" was as described in #2 - I should never have caved.<br />
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————-Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11313946149932929234noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-11789734930808011872013-02-19T00:01:00.000-05:002013-02-19T00:01:00.291-05:00TMI Tuesday - 2/18<div style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">It’s</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;"> </span><a href="http://tmituesdayblog.wordpress.com/" style="border: 0px; color: #743399; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank">TMI Tuesday</a><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;"> </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">time again. </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">L did such a great job answering the TMI questions for me last week, I seriously considered giving him the job permanently...but I'd miss it too much. Here goes!</span></h2>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">1. I’m the type of person that likes to be <u><i>dominated</i></u> in bed.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">2. If the sexiest person I know propositioned me for sex, I would <i><u>say 'Of course, L!'</u></i> .</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">3. The worst part about <i><u>running </u></i>when I am naked is <i><u>the black eyes</u></i> .</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">4. I regret my first <i><u>anal experience</u></i>.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">5. The last sexual/kinky thing I expected to like was <u><i>anal sex</i></u>.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">6. Recently, I <i><u>blew</u></i> someone. :P</span></div>
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Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11313946149932929234noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-29892236040033231782013-02-12T00:01:00.000-05:002013-02-12T00:21:32.627-05:00TMI Tuesday - 2/12<b>Evidently V is out clubbing with her friends or some such because I got a garbled text message to the effect of "Can't do TMI this week, please be a dear and answer it for me". So without further ado I shall answer as I think V might.</b><br />
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Valentine’s Day may be for lovers but everyday is for sexy, imaginative, fun, kinky people. Keeping your sex life exciting means switching it up a bit, and getting creative. One way to do that is to bring your fantasies to life with role-playing.</div>
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<strong style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">1. To spice things up in the bedroom, how adventurous are you willing to be? (select one)</strong><br />
a. I have never role-played before and will need a lot of instruction.<br />
b. I have tested the waters, but never acted out anything scripted.<br />
c. I have got my feet wet and want more!<br />
d. Dive in head first – nothing is too deep.</div>
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<b>d.d.d.d.d I am so much more than a double D and I have the wigs, outfits and bruises to prove it.</b></div>
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<strong style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">2. What scenario peaks your interest most? Why?</strong><br />
a. Romantic and sensual<br />
b. Playful and fun<br />
c. Kinky! I want it all.</div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, Bitstream Charter, serif;"><span style="line-height: 24px;"><b>c. You wouldn't believe some of the stuff in our mischief bag. Well actually you might you kinky people.</b></span></span></div>
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<strong style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">3. Which of these is closest to your ideal setting for a fantasy?</strong><br />
a. A brothel<br />
b. A dungeon<br />
c. A bedroom<br />
d. A prison cell<br />
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<b>b Dungeons have so many interesting possibilities.</b></div>
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<strong style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">4. Which of the following toys would be prominently featured in your fantasy? (select one)</strong></div>
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a. Feathers and whipped cream</div>
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b. Handcuffs, panty hose, and a necktie</div>
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c. Whips and chains</div>
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d. Ice cubes and a cold beer</div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, Bitstream Charter, serif;"><span style="line-height: 24px;"><b>All of the above, well as long as you allow me to substitute a crop for a whip.</b></span></span></div>
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<strong style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">5. It is time to take your sexy self to fantasy island, which fantasy will you bring to life to rock your lover’s world?</strong></div>
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a. The Sassy Sexy Jersey Whore - Gaudy, Flashy, Showy…totally Jersey!<br />
b. Kinky Cook - It’s all about the spice! Heating things up in the kitchen.<br />
c. Naughty Maid - Your feather duster will tickle more than just the dust on the shelves.<br />
d. Doctor Love - Saving lives and breaking hearts but not before you administer a head-to-toe physical examination.<br />
e. Frisky Fireman - A hose so long you can put out several of the hottest fires and leave a smoldering heap as proof of a job well done.</div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, Bitstream Charter, serif;"><span style="line-height: 24px;"><b>c Naughty Maid, L seemed to appreciate how I left everything spick and span.</b></span></span></div>
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<b>I don't want to give too much away but it involved a white blouse, a plaid skirt, some lube and a desk.</b></div>
Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11313946149932929234noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-33656615914195033192013-02-05T00:01:00.000-05:002013-02-05T00:01:01.319-05:00TMI Tuesday - 2/5<div style="text-align: center;">
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<strong><span style="color: #333333;">I don't currently live in a household where sex flourishes, so it is never a consideration when buying anything, however I have no doubt that if I were living in a home with L, that even the pancake flipper would be purchased with sex in mind. Between that knowledge and also having vacationed with him a number of times over the years, I think I'd have sufficient data to respond to these questions, keeping that scenario in mind.</span></strong><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #333333;">1. When you bought your bed frame, did you evaluate it in terms of ropes, handcuffs, etc?</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #333333;">Yes! The purchase of a bed frome would absolutely involve ensuring there were posts or some other means of tying off rope. We've managed in beds with no posts by running rope from side to side under the bed or tying off to the feet, but posts make it so much easier!</span></strong><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #333333;">2. Aside from beds, was sex ever a major consideration in choosing a piece of furniture?</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #333333;">On one of our vacations, there was a huge sofa in the living room, very deep and long enough that L was able to lie down comfortably (he is very tall!). It was so wide we were able to snuggle down together watch tv. I'm sure if it were in our own home, we'd probably use it for sex at some point. So I have to believe that other furniture items might be judged for their use also. Table heights would be another consideration.</span></strong><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #333333;">3. Have you ever had anyone else (friend, mom) say a piece of your furniture was inappropriate because it was clearly for sexual purposes?</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #333333;">No. We'd really love to get some of that Liberator furniture, but that would be pretty hard to conceal.</span></strong><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #333333;">4. Do you have a piece of furniture that has a stain caused by bodily fluids (baby vomit not included)?</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #333333;">No, but only because I'm meticulous about cleaning up after ourselves. :D</span></strong><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #333333;">5. Do you have anything in your beside table you wouldn’t want your father or mother to know about?</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #333333;">Since that's where I keep my toys, yes. I'd rather my children didn't find them either.</span></strong><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #333333;">6. Do you own any exercise equipment that is useful for sex?</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #333333;">I have exercise equipment, but nothing that I could imagine using for sexual purposes.</span></strong><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #333333;">7. Aside from your bedroom, what room do you have sex in most often?</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #333333;">The games room. </span></strong><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #333333;">8. Do you have any electronics (TV, stereo) etc in your bedroom that are on during sex?</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #333333;">No, but most often when we are in the games room, there is porn playing on the big screen tv!</span></strong>Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11313946149932929234noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-74110929201937532192013-01-29T00:11:00.004-05:002013-01-29T00:18:31.107-05:00TMI Tuesday - 1/29<h1>
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<strong><span style="color: navy;">1. Describe your lover’s penis with a movie title.</span></strong><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The Magnificent Seven</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: navy;">2. Describe your pussy with a movie title.</span></strong><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Naked Harbor</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: navy;">3. Describe your last sexual encounter with a song title.</span></strong><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Fuck Her Gently by Tenacious D</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: navy;">4. Describe your body with a song title.</span></strong><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I couldn't think of one, so I consulted L. Immediately he said, "Hot Chocolate". I laughed and said I was pretty sure they were a band, not a song. L then suggested I use their song, "You Sexy Thing".</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: navy;">5. Describe your sexual appetite with a book, song, or movie title.</span></strong><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Light My Fire by The Doors fits, I think. I may not always have sex on the brain, but it doesn't take much to get me going.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red;"><strong>Bonus</strong></span>: <b><span style="color: blue;">Recommend your favorite sexy, sensual or kink oriented book.</span></b><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macrame by Lee Harrington. L and I were fortunate to attend a workshop run by Lee and we had a fantastic time and learned a great deal. We highly recommend any of <a href="http://passionandsoul.com/author" target="_blank">his books</a> - and there are several.</span><br />
<br />Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11313946149932929234noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-13339924093633496232013-01-22T00:01:00.000-05:002013-01-28T12:23:42.643-05:00TMI Tuesday - 1/22<br />
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<strong style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; color: blue; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Complete each sentence with an anecdote of sexual adventure or misadventure:</span></strong></div>
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<div style="background-color: white; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">
<span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">The first time I had sex with L, it was my birthday. We had been chatting online and clicked and then met and really clicked. Unfortunately, I was obligated to go out to dinner with some friends and was becoming horribly pressed for time AND on my period to boot, so I had to leave before I jumped him in the back seat of my car! The next available time to get together happened to be my birthday. We met this time at his office after hours. He led me into a conference room where he had snacks laid out - cheese and veggies and dip - as well as a bottle of champagne. Now I'm old enough to not much care about birthdays, but I have to admit that I was delighted that he had gone through the trouble. We snacked, drank and then next thing I knew, I was laid out. I went home sporting a hickey and I had no idea. The whole story can be read <a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=6463825338347616102#editor/target=post;postID=6581021667760092029" target="_blank">here</a>.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">...think of sex is when I'm breathing.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">...sexual encounter with L (to date!) happened just a few months ago. We were in a hotel, so things were a bit more relaxed and unhurried, not having to watch the time or worry about privacy. There are a number of things that push my sexual buttons. I've written about many of them - being restrained, having my neck ravished, being surrounded and overpowered by him to name a few. This particular sexual encounter involved the spontaneous occurrence of so many of these button-pressing moments at once that I virtually exploded. It was just sublime.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">...experience with L happened when we were caught in a compromising position - by the police. We had carpooled to an event and when I stopped in a small parking lot to drop L to his car, one thing led to another. L was supposed to be keeping lookout, but he certainly didn't express any urgency when he said a car pulled into the lot. It was only when he said someone was getting out of the car and heading over to my vehicle that I became alarmed. Long story short, we were spoken to and were both horribly embarrassed by the incident. In retrospect, I was also a bit annoyed by the cop's comment, "...and you're not even young people!" Bite me, asshole!</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Well, that would probably be dabbling in consensual non-consent and playing out a (play) rape scene. To be very clear, I don't condone (real) rape nor wish to minimize the horrible impact it has on those unfortunate to have experienced it. I explained it at length in a TMI question about fantasies not too very long ago, so I'll choose something else for the purpose of not being repetitive. Well, actually, I suppose this ties in with the consensual non-consent, in a different way. I've long held a fantasy - and I'm not even sure if I've ever mentioned this one to him - of L immobilizing me with his rope and having his way with me. Just being tied up and opened up for his use in whatever way he pleases. Are you reading, Sweetie? :)</span></div>
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Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11313946149932929234noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-44083202001922138882013-01-15T00:01:00.000-05:002013-01-17T10:16:36.725-05:00TMI Tuesday - 1/15<br />
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A bunch of celebrity sex tapes have been made public through fair means or foul. Have you seen any of these? Which ones?</div>
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Pamela Anderson and Bret Michaels<br />
Paris Hilton and Rick Solomon<br />
Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee<br />
Kim Kardashian and Ray-J<br />
Kendra Wilkinson and Justin Frye</div>
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I've seen none of these!</div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; color: blue; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Today’s TMI Tuesday topic is sex photography and video.</strong></span></div>
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<strong style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; color: teal; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">1. Did you ever pose for pictures in sexual situations, or take pictures of a lover?</span></strong></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; color: teal; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Until I met L, I had never done this before. We have taken many hundreds of pictures of each other in sexual situations...and a very small number of each other (or together), but not in sexual situations.</span></span></span></div>
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<strong style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; color: teal; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">2. Did you keep these pictures private between yourselves, or did others see them?</span></strong></div>
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<strong style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; color: teal; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">3. Did any of them ever get out in public with embarrassing results?</span></strong></div>
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<span style="color: teal;">Yes! L's friend visiting from England took a video of L and I having sex. It's quite a lovely video, I must say.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background-color: transparent; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; color: teal; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">No. Obviously in this day and age there is no actual "tape", but our video has not been made public, with the exception of a single frame that we posted as an HNT quite a long time ago. It was rather a daring thing to post and we've since retired that image, just to keep things safe.</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">1. What feels better, the moment right before cumming, the moment of cumming, or the moment right after cumming? </span><br />
We discussed and decided that all three feel really good, for different reasons.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">2. For the fellas: it is said that guys will fuck anything that moves. but what if you’re a hippie who’s in love with the wind, how would that relationship work out?</span><br />
L says, "Blow jobs are nice but mouths feel much better than breezes..."<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">3. For the ladies: what would be your first gut reaction after the guy you’re on a first date with after months of online chatting looks you straight in the eye and whispers to you even before saying hi, “let’s fuck like rabbits…”? </span><br />
I have to say my initial response would be to laugh it off. I'm horribly shy and I'd be super embarrassed (while possibly a bit flattered) if someone who I wasn't very comfortable with said that to me. If I wasn't sure about him or didn't feel much of a connection when chatting, then I'd be wary from then on. If I felt a strong connection with him, then I'd take that as intent and move on with our date, knowing where it could lead if I wanted it to.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">4. There can only be ONE!!! okay, you have to choose EITHER your dream man/woman/lover/partner or your dream job, one or the other, not both. Which do you choose for the rest of your life and why? </span><br />
I would take my dream lover over my dream job, no questions asked. A job is a job - a means to earn my keep. Obviously, some jobs are hellish, some are tolerable and others are a joy to attend every day. In the end though, it's the people in your life that help you get through. Jobs come and go, but your lover is your constant source of love and support through all of it, even long after you've retired and no longer hold a job.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">5. Is love itself, being in love, crazy? Or is the world crazy, and love serves to heal a crazy world? or is it that you’re crazy and the world is just fine? I guess what i’m asking from you is for a little treatise on the general topic of love and craziness. what is love?…baby, don’t hurt me, don’t hurt me…</span><br />
What is love? I ponder this question fairly often - what is love? Does it exist? Really? Do I feel it? Do I trust it? How do I find someone who will feel that way about me? Is that even possible? Am I unlovable? All unanswerable in the end. Bah.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Bonus: If all of us in the blogging community pooled our resources together and chained our blogs in unison into one big shining electrical power line of humanity, could we save the world?</span><br />
Um. No?Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11313946149932929234noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-82235230019224588632012-12-26T23:00:00.000-05:002012-12-26T23:07:54.359-05:00Our HNT - Anniversary Post<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
V and I recently donned our Christmas gear and had a great time preparing our HNT Anniversary post. </div>
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<br />Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11313946149932929234noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-19581610587880903672012-12-11T00:01:00.000-05:002012-12-11T00:09:36.372-05:00TMI Tuesday - 12/11<div style="text-align: center;">
<span style="color: green;"><span style="color: blue; font-size: x-large;"><strong><em>'Tis the Season!</em></strong></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: green;">1. During the December holiday season, Do you</span><br /><span style="color: green;"> a. Go away to join other family?</span><br /><span style="color: green;"> b. Have holiday fun with immediate family?</span><br /><span style="color: green;"> c. Get to be alone with a lover?</span><br /><span style="color: green;"> d. Enjoy the peace and quiet and down-time of being with yourself?</span><br />
<span style="color: green;"><span style="color: black;">It varies. Most of my family lives overseas, so sometimes it's a. and sometimes it's b. (minus the fun). Although it would be lovely, c. would be unlikely. Sometimes, I wish for d.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: green;">2. What is your favorite holiday tradition or thing that you like to do every holiday season?</span><br />
<span style="color: green;"><span style="color: black;">I bake a ton of stuff every year...cookies, cakes, breads, etc.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: green;">3. You are walking down the street and a sexy person is standing with a sign that says “Kiss Me” and mistletoe hanging above their head.</span><br /><span style="color: green;">1. Would you kiss that person? <span style="color: black;">NO</span></span><br /><span style="color: green;"> 2. Why or why not? <span style="color: black;">Though I might</span><span style="color: black;"> think about it, but I am a shy person and it's unlikely I'd put myself out there to kiss a stranger.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: green;">4. Santa made up his list and he has checked it twice. Turns out you are on the “naughty” list. What is the naughty thing you did that put you on that list?</span><br />
<span style="color: green;"><span style="color: black;">My goodness, where would I start!? I've done numerous naughty things this year, it would be hard to choose just one.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: green;">5. For being naughty you have been locked in a room where you will be forced to learn about holiday cheer. You will have to watch 24 hours of a holiday movie, which movie would you choose to watch? (pick just one)</span><br /><span style="color: green;"> a. <a href="http://youtu.be/ppOXpyhM2wA" target="_blank">A Christmas Story</a></span><br /><span style="color: green;"> b. <a href="http://youtu.be/LJfZaT8ncYk" target="_blank">It’s a Wonderful Life</a></span><br /><span style="color: green;"> c. <a href="http://youtu.be/SAPasm6a9YM" target="_blank">White Christmas</a></span><br /><span style="color: green;"> d. A Christmas Carol (original <a href="http://youtu.be/mW5o5wP4R1A" target="_blank">1938</a> version or the 1992 <a href="http://youtu.be/nZnM2fsS9ic" target="_blank">Muppet </a>version)</span><br />
<span style="color: green;"><span style="color: black;">Two of these movies I've never seen, so I'd hesitate to commit to watching them for 24 hours. It's a Wonderful Life I saw once a few years ago and I really enjoyed it. Having seen it only that one time and remembering only a few parts in particular, I could probably stand to watch it over and over again....so I'll go with b.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: green;"><span style="color: red;"><strong>Bonus</strong></span>: The holidays can be a hectic time of year, so much so that romance might take a back seat to festivities and such. Give us YOUR sexy tip for keeping away the “chill” and “heating up” the </span><br />
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<span style="color: green;"><span style="color: black;">My Mrs. Claus costume always seems to heat things up. :P</span></span>Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11313946149932929234noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-55154521481212032322012-12-04T00:01:00.000-05:002012-12-04T00:01:01.660-05:00TMI Tuesday - 12/4<div style="text-align: center;">
<span style="color: blue; font-size: x-large;"><strong><em>Sexual Fantasies</em></strong></span></div>
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1. Do you think that acting out a fantasy can sometimes cause damage to a relationship?<br />
I think it depends on the fantasy. If L wants me to don a specifically styled blonde wig and answer to his ex-wife's name, it may have a completely different result than if his fantasy involves me donning a blonde wig and playing the part of a stranger impressed with his physique who wants to suck his cock.<br />
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2. Some couples role play their fantasies rather than introducing another person into the relationship to live out their fantasies. Do you think that this is an acceptable substitute?<br />
We have brought in a third to our relationship before (or perhaps I was the third!), but we also role play from time to time. For me, that only works if I take the role very seriously. Certainly you feel a bit ridiculous - a woman my age dressed up as a school girl, for example, but if you really embrace the role it is quite fun and can be a very intense encounter. L's very busy at work lately and doesn't have much blog-reading time. So since I don't think he'll read this, I'm going to tell you all a secret. I know L has a thing for redheads, so I recently bought a gorgeous wig. Sure, my skin tone is just about as far from what a redhead would have as possible, but I'm sure when he has me bent over a bed, table or desk that won't matter. I can't wait for the opportunity to wear it for him! I was so pleased with it, that I've since purchased two more - one blonde and one brunette. After all, variety is the spice of life!<br />
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3. Is there a particular movie or TV series or character from a movie or TV series that you fantasise about?<br />
No - I never fantasize about TV or movie stars, characters or themes. In fact, I don't give them any thought at all.<br />
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4. Apart from the obvious things like child abuse, are there some things that are ‘off limits’ for a fantasy e.g. incest fantasies, age play, rape fantasies. Why/ why not?<br />
I haven't discussed many off limits fantasies with L, but there are some I'm interested in. The primary one - which we have discussed a few times - is that I have a fantasy about being (play) raped. Extreme? Perhaps - and definitely not for everybody. One should note that having a rape fantasy does not mean I want to be raped or condone the action of rape. When one is raped, you are in a position where you are forced to do things against your will and all control has been removed from you. I find that situation horribly demeaning and devastating and I wouldn't wish that on anybody. A rape fantasy is different because I would be "raped" (consensual non-consent), but on my own terms and with control. If I say stop, it stops. I have a complete outfit of clothes that can be destroyed (pants have holes, shirt I no longer wear, etc.) that I have been saving for when that happens - I imagine them being ripped and cut from my body while I am being heavily restrained with his body.<br />
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5. What is the most taboo thing you have ever fantasised about doing?<br />
See #4 - I'm pretty sure that's the worst I've come up with. So far.<br />
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6. Tell us about a fantasy that you have that you don’t ever see yourself actually acting out. Why do <br />
you think you will never act it out?<br />
Again, see #4. There are a couple reasons it has not happened. Certainly time and place have been an issue so far. Also, L is a really, really, really nice man and I think that while the idea of being a completely rough barbarian with me appeals, it is very difficult for him to put it into practice. The word "rape" freaks him a bit....every time I say "rape", he interjects with "<em>play</em> rape", not to mention he's afraid of hurting me and leaving marks. We talk a lot about what we do, what we'd like to do, etc., so one day he may get there and feel comfortable in the role, but until then a fantasy it remains. It may always be so and I can respect that, but I hold on to those old clothes and live in hope. ;)<br />
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7. Have you ever pretended the person you were having sex with was someone else without telling them?<br />
Never, never, never. When I'm having sex with someone, I'm always extremely focused on them and present with them. For me, everything around becomes a blur.<br />
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8. Have you ever tried to make a fantasy a reality only to have it fail miserably? What happened?<br />
I wouldn't say "failed miserably", but I have had elements of a fantasy acted out and found that the mental image did not match the resulting actions. Not to say those actions weren't completely hot and fun, but they just weren't exactly as I imagined they would be.<br />
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<strong>Bonus</strong>: Tell us about your most cherished fantasy. Did you ever live it out? Please give us all the juicy details because that is the kind of people we are.<br />
I don't harbour a huge number of fantasies, to be honest. L has expanded my sexual horizons so widely that most of the things that I had considered fantasies are now part of our everyday repertoire of hot and fun times. Most of the things that remain as fantasies are best left as fantasies - they might be overly painful or impractical for our surroundings, require contortions no longer possible with our aging bodies, may pose a danger to one or both of us or just plain may not end up as hot as we imagine them to be. <br />
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<span style="color: blue;">1.</span> <span style="color: blue;">When is the last time you or your loved one had their prostate checked?</span><br />
L said, "I last had my prostate checked at my annual physical a few months ago."<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">2. Besides</span><span style="color: blue;"> a medical professional, how many other people have had their finger up your ass?</span><br />
When asked this question, L responded to ask if he counted. Pointing out that the question said "other people", so probably not, his response is "one" - I guess that's me! My answer would be the same, except it would also include medical professionals.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">3. Have you ever given or received a prostate massage? Did you like it? Did you cum or orgasm?</span><br />
I can vouch that L has had a prostate massage and I don't think he much liked it, but let's see what he had to say. When asked, L responded, "Yes - and it was okay...but no, I did not cum or orgasm."<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: blue;">4. Do you enjoy anal play–rimming, fingering, penetration, etc.?</span><br />
I do enjoy anal play, having experienced fingering and penetration. L has experienced all three and says that while he is positive toward ass play in general, he feels that more experience is required before he can fully make up his mind. <br />
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<span style="color: blue;">5. Ever had anal sex?<br />A. No, and I don’t want to.<br />B. No, but I am dying to try it.<br />C. Yes, but it is just okay.<br />D. Yes, love it…can’t get enough of it.<br />E. That’s the way I like it. Anal sex is the best sex.</span><br />
L and I both enjoy anal sex. L chose option C. I'll choose C also, but really the answer is something between C and D. I think it's better than "just okay", but perhaps not to the extent that I "can't get enough of it".<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">6. You are about to have anal sex, which method would you choose (You must choose one.):<br />A. Finger up the ass<br />B. Prostate stimulator/</span><a href="http://www.sexshop365.co.uk/catalog/anal-toys-313/prostate-massagers-333/aneros-progasm-prostate-massager-12672.html"><span style="color: blue;">massager</span></a><br />
<span style="color: blue;">C. Penis–real or strap-on</span><br />
While I would choose C - and L's penis - every time, L's choice here would be A.<br />
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Libidinous Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04597389593355542087noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-72126816257830931482012-11-13T00:01:00.000-05:002012-11-13T08:49:37.217-05:00TMI Tuesday - 11/13<a href="http://tmituesdayblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/11/20121112-090524.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="20121112-090524.jpg" class="alignnone size-full" src="http://tmituesdayblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/11/20121112-090524.jpg?w=640" /></a>Hello my fellow TMI Tuesday junkies. Movember is in full-swing. I can’t wait to see those Mo’s a little later in the month. In the meantime here is a set of VERY fine TMI Tuesday questions from longtime blogger and frequent TMI Tuesday question contributor <strong><a href="http://virtualsin.wordpress.com/">virtualsin.wordpress.com</a></strong><br />
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No, thankfully I've never had a partner treated for prostate cancer. The pump is an interesting device. I have no idea if they work or not, but if they did, then I don't think they would be a turn-off. I'd think that if you're in a great relationship, it's about the journey and not the destination. Working together to do the things you want to do is never a bad thing and I'm sure that with patience and understanding, things could work out just fine - and it might also draw you closer to each other.<br />
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2. If they were treated with radiation, the usual reason [for the erectile dysfunction] is damage to blood vessels. They may have good luck with Viagra or or one of the other impotence meds. Have you (or your partner) ever used Viagra, Cialis, or similar? Did it work? Any interesting side effects? Any 4-hour erections? Tell us how you made use of that <img alt=";-)" class="wp-smiley" src="http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif?m=1129645325g" /> <br />
I have no exposure to my partner using Viagra or any other medications to achieve erection. Having read this question to L however, he's suggested that he now knows what he'd like for Christmas!<br />
3. Some men may opt for a penile implant. See <a href="http://www.urologicalcare.com/advanced-ed-treatments/types-penile-implants/">http://www.urologicalcare.com/advanced-ed-treatments/types-penile-implants/</a>. Do you have experience with a penile implant (as owner or lover-of-owner)? Did it work for you?<br />
Again, no exposure to a partner with a penile implant.<br />
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4. If they were treated with hormone therapy (e.g. Lupron Depot), they may also lose all libido. I can’t think of a good question, but if you have a story, please share.<br />
No story, but I think it's a difficult thing when one partner loses all libido. It is critical, but not easy to maintain the intimacy between you, even if it doesn't include sex <em>as you once knew it</em>. It's important to evolve and expand your repertoire together to accommodate changes in capabilities and desires and to find things to do together to fill the gaps and maintain that connection between you.<br />
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5. Some men diagnosed with Prostate Cancer change their diet or avoid certain foods. Did you ever change your diet for health reasons? How did it work out? How long did you stay on the diet?<br />
Not for prostate-related reasons obviously, but I've changed my diet for other health reasons a number of years ago. I've been able to maintain that eating plan and it has worked out well - my health has greatly improved because of it.<br />
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6. The prostate is a sexual organ, and treatment of the prostate changes the sexual experience. A man who has had his prostate removed does not ejaculate at orgasm. How would you react to a total lack of cum?<br />
I've only ever felt inclined to taste one man's cum (L's), but I liked it. In spite of that, if L had a problem and was unable to ejaculate, I don't think it would make that much difference to me. I think it's important to be flexible and understanding of each others' issues and when you are, things just work out. As long as he still enjoys the act of having sex and we can share that enjoyment, then life goes on. <br />
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7. Although removal of the prostate reduces the intensity of orgasm in the pelvic region, some men report orgasmic feelings in other parts of the body, some describing a “whole body orgasm.” How cool is that?<br />
That is cool...and seems only fair. If someone has to go through the experience of dealing with prostate cancer and all the life-changing difficulties that go with it, it seems to me that they deserve to have such a positive side effect of all that treatment!<br />
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8. Do you think a man treated for Prostate Cancer deserves a blow job? If yes, please email Virtual Sin aka SinnerMan…<br />
Very cute, SinnerMan! Unfortunately, I'm not in a position to email you to set something up, but I can say that every man - prostate cancer survivor or not - deserves to have someone to perform cock worship and give them mind-blowing blow jobs on a regular basis.<br />
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During November each year, <span style="color: red;"><strong>Movember</strong></span> is responsible for the sprouting of moustaches on thousands of men’s faces around the world. With their Mo’s, these men <span style="color: #3366ff;"><strong>raise vital awareness and funds for men’s health issues, specifically prostate and testicular cancer</strong></span> initiatives. <br />
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<strong>1. Ladies…Have you ever kissed a man with a moustache? </strong><strong>Did you like it?</strong><br />
Yes, I have. Two of them are never without a moustache. L, normally clean shaven (or with a sexy bit of stubble) is a regular Movember participant, so I have also had the opportunity to kiss his moustachioed face many times. I don't mind the little extra tickle at all!<br />
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<strong>2. They say ‘putting on the beard’ means going down on a lady with a full bush. Do you prefer a bearded, trimmed or bald pussy?</strong><br />
I myself haven't had a full bush for more than 15 years. I definitely prefer bald for myself - in fact I've been bald for so long I hate to feel even the smallest amount of fuzz! Since I've never been muff-diving, I decided to ask L for his opinion. His response: "Bald is my favourite!". Works for me!<br />
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<strong>3. What’s your preferred style of ‘tashing on’? (snogging)</strong><br />
Is "lots" a style? lol Seriously I just really love kissing...long sensuous ones where tongues tangle, short sippy open mouthed ones, ones with bites, quick smooches and I even love leaning over or reaching up and kissing L on the cheek (which I do all the time).<br />
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<strong>4. When was the last time you cupped yours or anyone else’s testicles?</strong><br />
Why, I did this just yesterday! A lovely pair, I must say!<br />
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I like them all. The 'undercover brother' is the style I'm most familiar with in my life, but I do know two guys that have the 'wisp' and it's pretty hot! A few months ago I saw a man with waxed handlebars and I thought that was pretty cool too!</div>
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Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11313946149932929234noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-11209904632119102092012-11-05T06:00:00.001-05:002012-11-05T19:38:18.224-05:00He said: Curses, Foiled Again!Who wouldn't want to have a pedicure in the woods while drinking wine? The natural followup would usually be a quick fuck or blowjob on the blanket. That would be unless your secret spot in the woods becomes a superhighway for dog walkers. It was just a good thing we heard their voices before either one or both of us had our pants around our ankles or naked asses exposed to the breeze. Our outdoor adventures have not been without incident so we have naturally become a bit skittish about being discovered in a compromising position Scratch one opportunity for an outdoor naughty time.<br />
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We should have known that when the weather was so nice so late in the season that something would go wrong. How about a park full of kids and a fire truck? Who would have thought on the last good day before winter that instead of the park being locked up tight as expected that the gate would be wide open and full of school buses and cars. The blue flags marking the trail a few feet away from our secret picnic spot and the trampled down grass were additional confirmation that hanky panky would be a distinctly bad idea.</div>
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Not too much to add. Lest you think that these days were terrible disappointments nothing could be further from the truth. V and I had a nice lunch with wine both times, all that was missing was the proverbial icing on the cake. I also managed to get a nice picture of my feet soaking as I waited for my pedicure.</div>
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Libidinous Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04597389593355542087noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-52939125852931513422012-11-05T06:00:00.000-05:002012-11-05T06:00:07.177-05:00She said: Twice Thwarted and Plans AbortedNot sure if you've ever noticed from our pictures, but my feet are always well looked after. I get a pedicure every three weeks - heels scrubbed, legs massaged and nails trimmed and polished - sometimes plainly, but more often decorated by hand with sweeping designs or flowers and sometimes even little jewels. Even as a young mom when I didn't have the time or disposable income to worry about pedicures, I still looked after them regularly and kept them looking good.<br />
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By comparison, I think most men don't give a fig about what their feet look like. Their idea of trimming their toenails is having them lopped off when they stub them on a piece of furniture. Okay, I'm exaggerating...L, for one, isn't really that bad, but while he certainly does trim his toenails, it is not perhaps as regular an event as it should be. A few years ago nearing L's birthday, I wanted to treat him to a pedicure as part of his birthday gift. I learned a long time ago that L really enjoys being pampered sometimes and I suspected that once he got by the stigma of it being a "woman thing" that he'd actually really enjoy it. I confided in my esthetician about him.<br />
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She is really great and as a result I have directed a fair amount of business her way, including several of my close family members. I wanted to take L there for a pedicure, but I wanted to be sure first that she was comfortable with that situation. I knew she'd keep my secret when I told her, but it's one thing to not repeat my story to others and quite another to be complicit by meeting and interacting with him. She was fine with it though, and I was able to take L there and I sat and kept them company while he had his feet done. Although he did enjoy it and said he'd go again, I did kind of sense that he felt that a lot of the steps were unnecessary for him. He just really wanted someone to cut his nails. <br />
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Recently, L asked me how much I pay to have a pedicure done. After answering, I asked if he was interested in going again. He seemed a bit undecided, so I asked if he'd like me to cut his nails for him. He thought that it would be impractical, given the limitations of our relationship, but I thought we could easily do this in the park and it would work out just fine. I explained what I had in mind and he agreed it sounded doable, so we made a date to have a lunch and pedicure session.<br />
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The day came and I packed up the items I thought I'd need - a basin, a flask of boiling water, a jug of warm water, a towel and some implements like clippers, cuticle pusher, file, etc. It had been raining overnight, so after hiking to our secret spot - a small clearing that's a pretty out of the way - I spread a tarp on the ground and then our blanket on top of it. L sat in a lawn chair and I prepared the water, mixing the warm and the hot until it was comfortable for him. Then I handed him a bottle of wine to open while I organized some (very yummy!) sandwiches I had prepared. We sat - he in the chair and me on the ground at his feet - and chatted, ate and sipped at our wine while he soaked.<br />
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When I finished eating, I cleared up and sat the towel on my lap and took one foot out of the water. I clipped his toenails, pushed back and trimmed his cuticles, filed his nails and in no time, his foot was looking exponentially better than when we started. Before starting on the next foot, I got some lotion and massaged from his calves down to his toes. Doing the same for the other foot, I had just finished clipping his nails when we heard voices. We've been to this spot many times, fucked there, given blow jobs there and never once had we run across anyone before. We looked at each other in surprise, then tried to arrange things so it didn't look so strange. We were talking quietly as a young couple and a little dog rounded the corner into our clearing.<br />
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We stopped, smiled and said hello as they passed through and into the path on the opposite side. We declined to pick up where we left off right away as we knew they'd be back. We'd scoped out this area pretty thoroughly, so we knew the path was too overgrown to go anywhere after you passed through to the other side. The way they came in was the only way back out. Not too long after, they came through again we smiled knowingly as they explained that they couldn't get through. Once their voices had faded into the distance, I finished up with L's feet. He put his shoes and socks back on and disposed of the soaking water while I packed up my implements. I wanted to give him a blow job to tide him over until we were together again, but we both felt a little leary, wondering who would next be coming down the path.<br />
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A couple weeks later, we had a single day of fantastic weather in between many, many wet and dreary ones so we decided to take advantage of that glorious day and have another picnic - probably our last for the year. Being my usual needy self, I was dying to get laid and L thought we might be able to squeeze one in while we were there. We arrived at the same park to a bit of a surprise. The main gates which had closed at Thanksgiving in early October and wouldn't reopen until spring were wide open and the park was a hive of activity. Cars, school buses, kids and adults packed the park.<br />
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We drove into the park, right down to the end of the long winding road and everywhere was full of cars and people. It appeared there was a cross country running meet going on with multiple schools. We decided to go back to the entrance and park there and hike in past the gates as originally planned. As we approached our spot, we could see the grass had been trampled down considerably. Between that clue and a few red flags planted in the ground we realized that the path for the runners passed uncomfortably close to our clearing. With no leaves on the trees by this time, we certainly couldn't count on not being seen.<br />
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Between then and now, there have been exactly two days in between that have been glorious. Relatively warm with sunshine and beautiful skies. Each of those times, we have had the opportunity to visit our "secret spot" - the little hard-to-find clearing we've told you about. The second week, V remarked how changed the tree in the clearing was just from the week before. The third week we went, she was sad to see that the leaves were already all gone.<br />
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<i>Autumn is a season followed immediately by looking forward to spring!</i><br />
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Save a tree - eat a beaver!<br />
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1. What is the longest relationship you have been in?<br />
I've been married over 25 years. To break that down, that's more than half my life and about 15 years too many.<br />
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2. What is the shortest relationship you have been in?<br />
Even though I've been with L for a few years, it qualifies as my shortest relationship to date.<br />
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3. How often do you have sex? How often do you want sex?<br />
L and I are fortunate to be able to see each other often. We usually see each other (with opportunity for sex) at least once or twice per week (some weeks we see each other more often, but without opportunity). Unless time is a huge constraint, we rarely have sex just once - most often it's multiple times with short breaks in between. I think I speak for us both when I say that I wish it were more often, but I am also thankful for the time that we are able to spend together. How often do I want sex? Put it this way...when we travel together, we normally have sex twice per day - morning and evening...and even then sometimes during the day I want to jump his bones.<br />
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4. How long does sex usually last?<br />
That varies greatly...how horny are we? Have we been drinking? Are we in a hurry? Are we somewhere private or public? There are lots of factors. Not only that, but I'm not in the habit of checking my watch while I'm being rogered.<br />
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5. Have you ever had an experience where someone couldn’t perform, finished too quickly or couldn’t keep up with you? Tell us about it?<br />
That happens, but rarely....and quite frankly I don't see it as a big deal. I choose to look at it positively - how can you be put out when someone's so excited to be with you that they've lost control? I think if it were a regular occurance I might struggle more with it, however there are many ways to get someone off, so as long as he recognizes that he's left me hanging and helps looks after me after the fact, it's all good.<br />
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6. If you could only have one “type” of sexual encounter for the rest of your life, would you prefer<br />
a) short and sweet<br />
b) wham bam thank you ma’am<br />
c) here for the long haul<br />
d) slow and tender<br />
Trying to decipher what these mean! lol Short and sweet - there's definitely times when a quickie hits the spot. Does wham bam thank you ma'am mean rough sex? If so, I'm in! Here for the long haul - I assume this means a longer encounter. Those are common if L's been drinking. Slow and tender - there are times, though rare, when this is just what I need. Overall, given my perceptions of what these mean, I'd go for the intense and rougher sex, so I'll say (b)!<br />
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<span style="color: red;"><strong>Bonus</strong></span>: Would you consider ending an otherwise healthy and loving relationship if the sex wasn’t what you wanted?<br />
In my first year with L, I probably had more sex than I did in my last 15 years of marriage. In my experience, I think that without that sexual connection between two people and no other efforts made to meet needs, other feelings of intimacy fade and a relationship that you may have once considered loving can become something much more distant and irrelevant. I do strongly feel though that it all depends on the people involved and the reason for the lack of sex. I'm sure that it's possible for a couple to remain devoted to each other and do other things to maintain that intimacy between them - take the time to recognize the needs of the other, do things with and for each other and make an effort to support each other and be understanding about the reasons for the lack of sex - such a relationship might be able to endure. So I think as much as I love sex, if the relationship was everything I wanted it to be, except for the sex, I might be inclined to stay. Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11313946149932929234noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-45956662603833939662012-10-26T06:00:00.000-04:002012-10-26T06:00:12.912-04:00L's NPOTW - We Get Knotty in the Pines<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<em>Thank you to the <a href="http://tmituesdayblog.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">TMI Tuesday</a> reader who submitted the following THEN AND NOW questions. He wanted to remain anonymous.</em></h5>
<span style="color: #0000cc;"><strong>1. What one part of your sex life today would most surprise the 17 year old you?</strong></span><br />
<span style="color: black;">The 17 year old me was still a virgin. Although she was always a very sensual and sexual person, I think she was not very worldly and a lot of things might surprise her. A lot of men wanted her (with various intentions - sex, marriage, etc.) and she in turn understood the effect she had on men, though she was not bold enough to use it to her advantage. I think though that since she would have had no exposure whatsoever to a BDSM lifestyle or the types of sexual acts categorized under that heading, that she might certainly be surprised to imagine that the future her would find that lifestyle so enjoyable, though in retrospect, it almost seems like a natural progression.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0000cc;"><strong>2. What one thing might shock that younger you?</strong></span><br />
<span style="color: black;">I think the younger me might be shocked that I had the temerity to go and get a VCH piercing.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0000cc;"><strong>3. What part of the younger you’s (not necessarily at age 17) sex life do you look back on with the most nostalgia?</strong></span><br />
<span style="color: black;">I don't think I view anything in the past with nostalgia sexually speaking. Only at this current time in my life is my sex life approaching what I'd always hoped it could be. I have had a more frequent and exciting sex life with L than I ever had in my marriage or in any of the short relationships I had leading up to it. Not that I'm complaining at all, but my sex life with L is fantastic in quality, but could be even better with increased quantity. It happens from time to time - days of opportunity where we can experience both quality and quantities that are more than satisfying. Though rare, those times certainly stand out...Oh! Perhaps those are the times I can look back on with nostalgia! </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Although the younger me failed horribly in the sexual ambitions category by marrying someone whose sex drive did not even come close to matching her own, I think I've fulfilled all of that young woman's fantasies and many more that she never knew she'd have. I wonder what she'd think of the fantasies I dream up now!</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: red;">Bonus:</span></strong> <span style="color: blue;"> <strong>Give your 17 year old self a piece of sexual advice.</strong></span><br />
Don't marry a man whose sex drive does not match your own - it's not true that all men love sex or think about it all the time. Some don't give it a moment's thought. Ever. Also, if you cannot be your true self in the bedroom without fear of judgement, then you have the wrong man.Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11313946149932929234noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-13411978375376628182012-10-19T06:00:00.000-04:002012-10-19T08:39:26.018-04:00L's NPOTW - Accessible<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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</em>Libidinous Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04597389593355542087noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6463825338347616102.post-39420464824616426542012-10-03T06:00:00.000-04:002012-10-03T06:00:05.983-04:00We said: MBE 2012<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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Once again, L and I had the opportunity to attend MBE - Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza. Even bigger and better than last year, it was truly an incredible showcase of all types of bondage. We were able to watch at least 15 different scenes. While it was apparent that there was a vast difference in the capabilities of the riggers, we still enjoyed ourselves and were amazed at some of the elaborate work. Here are some descriptions and pictures of some of our favourite scenes:<br />
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A very tall, very lovely and very pregnant woman was being tied with a fabulous rope corset. The rope corset was an amazing enhancement to her already-beautiful body. The rigger, a man in jeans and a leather vest did an absolutely fantastic job - it was just stunning! Unfortunately, flash photography was not permitted in the venue and the area they were working in was not well lit, so I was not successful in capturing a picture of suitable quality to share with you.<br />
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On a stage, a very well-dressed rigger, complete with mutton-chops tied his bunny's bent arms and legs, then slipping the rope under her squatting body and through her legs, he positioned a knot just so, bringing her to orgasm with just a few tugs of his rope. I was absolutely fascinated with her facial expressions and took many pictures. Her rapture was incredible to watch.<br />
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In another area, another rigger did an inverted suspension that upon completion, rendered his bunny bird-like, body arched and her arms extended as though in flight. It was very interesting to watch it take shape and I was fascinated. The finished tie was very beautiful.<br />
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Yet another very elaborate scene used a pyramid constructed of bamboo poles. I watched for a very long time while they secured the four corners of the pyramid...in fact it was taking so long that I walked away to view other scenes. I was glad some time later that I had returned in time to be able to see the pyramid ready for use with the bunny now secured to the frame. Tied to two of the poles, she held on tightly while the rigger strained to connect the pyramid to the suspension point, moving it upward gradually with the help of some caribiners and brute strength. He succeeded of course, though with much effort and the suspended structure with the bunny inside was spun and twisted to great effect. <br />
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