TMI Tuesday 9/13

DATING

1. You’re on a speed date. You’ve got 7 minutes with the potential partner. You already know the person’s name. What are the first three questions you would ask?
Out of a possible 10, how would you rate your libido? (Hopefully, the answer's 12!) What kinds of activities do you enjoy? How kinky are you?

2. Have you ever participated in speed dating? Did you get a regular date/second date out of it?
I've never participated in speed dating.

3. Do you participate in online dating? How many dates have you had as a result of online dating sites/matches?
I met L at an online dating site...on my first try - I was very lucky.

4. You are attracted to:
a. Who people are?
b. What people have?
c. What they can do?
Absolutely, who they are is most important to me. I'm not at all interested in what they do/don't have or what they can do - or what they look like, for that matter. These things are all superficial and can even be ephemeral.

5. What “little red flag” will cause you to end a date or immediately decide this person isn’t for you?
Being shy, people that are too forward, pushy or too much in my personal space are anathema to me. They will drive me right into my shell and I can never get comfortable with them after that.

6. What do you feel you need to sacrifice or have sacrificed to be a part of a relationship?
I think if you meet the right person - and you both give and take and it's not one-sided - then anything that you have to compromise on doesn't feel like sacrifice. I have sacrificed a lot in my life to remain in a relationship, but it's not worth it in the end, when you are the only one making the sacrifices. Always try to be true to yourself and honest with your partner...and if you can't, then you shouldn't be together.

7. If you cooked for your date, what would you cook?
Wow - hard question. I love to cook and bake and I think I'm a pretty good at both, so there are any number of dishes that I make well that I'd like to serve my date. Ask L - I feed him all the time! I think my approach would be to find out what foods my date particularly likes and tailor something to suit his likes.

8. At the end of a first date, how would you kiss your date?
a. Press your lips against theirs
b. Gentle kiss on the cheek
c. Lots o’ tongue, like you’re on a tonsil exploration
d. I don’t kiss on the first date
These descriptions are interesting. A and b sound so sweet and chaste, while c sounds sloppy, gross and disgusting. I think if the date went extremely well and I felt comfortable with the person, I'd go with a modified version of c - tongue without the tonsil exploration. To me, a kiss with tongue should be sensual and full of the promise of things to come. If I was not comfortable with my date or if I wasn't planning a second date, I'd go with b.

Bonus: You just put up a profile on a dating site. You must describe yourself in 10 words or less. What are your 10 words?
Eschewing sentences, I'd say these words describe me: shy, quiet, private, loyal, loving, organized, patient, calm, affectionate and understanding. Of course that's just my perception - I may be wrong about any or all of them!

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She said: A Day of Treats!

We hadn't had anal in a very long time, though not for any reason in particular - it just worked out that way. One night while planning our visit for the next day, L pointed this out and said I was overdue. I agreed, reminding him that we have an anal toy still to review for Eden Fantasys.

I showed up at his office the next day and I couldn't wait to get started. We set up and while L organized the lighting, I unpacked the items we'd need out of the mischief bag. Condoms, lube, the anal toy and another butt plug ready to go, I joined L in stripping bare. L was already lying down and I took his extended hand as he pulled me down to join him. Even though it had only been days, it always seems to feel like forever since we were last together and we spent a long while kissing and caressing each other, before I coyly asked him what he'd like me to do for him. He appeared to think for just a moment or two before declaring that he'd like me to suck his cock.

I made my way down his body, kissing and nipping as I went, until I reached his cock and took it fully in my mouth. His moans spurred me on and while I sucked his cock to a massive erection, he prepared my butt for the invasion of said cock. I got on my hands and knees and he took his position behind me, snapping the leash on my collar just before sliding his cock into my ready ass. Not that I didn't have good reason, but I always find it hard to believe now that I was afraid of anal for so long - L makes it so good I can hardly stand it and as always, I was so turned on that my pussy was soaked before he could even get fully inside my ass.

I glanced over toward the mischief bag and saw a small vibrator handily available. I grabbed it, pressed the button to turn it on and applied it to my aching pussy all in one smooth motion. By now, L was sunk deep into my ass and started picking up the pace. I started to push back in the opposite motion to his strokes, pushing my ass cheeks firmly back against him, trying to coax him to speed up and really give it to me. As he tugged on the lead, L started talking dirty to me, asking me if I liked having his hard cock in my ass and saying that my ass was his and his alone. Through my gasps and moans, I agreed - it seemed only fair, since it's only because of him that I enjoy it so much. My moans grew louder and just as the orgasm ripped through me and my ass contracted tightly around his cock, L squeezed my bottom in both hands and blew his load. Panting, he stayed still for a moment, then leaned over and kissed my back, giving my ass a final squeeze before pulling out. Though hard on the knees, it was amazing.

After a few moments of rest, L said he had a surprise for me. He lead me into another room where he had a very special setup in place. L sends me porn all the time. I explain to him things that I like or fantasize about and he searches it out and sends me two or three different videos to see which is most like what I have in mind. Lately, my thing has been bondage porn and being fucked while immobilized and he had sent me a couple very hot videos to check out. The surprise waiting for me was that he had a frame erected that was very reminiscent of the frames I saw some of the women tied to in the bondage porn. He had ropes already in place to bind my wrists and ankles to the frame.

After swinging from the frame himself to reassure me that it could easily bear my weight, he led me into place and starting with my ankles, tied me standing spread-eagled within the frame. Secured, he blindfolded me, then started to play with my tits, pinching and biting them. After a minute or so, he moved behind me and kissed my neck and ran his hands down my body before kneeling behind me and biting my ass a number of times. He stood back up and asked me if I were ready. The first lash, though anticipated, was startling and I gasped. He started with the slut paddle and worked his way through our various implements - the ping pong paddle, his hands, a light flogger and another heavier one before the finale, the heaviest of our floggers. While it does sting, this flogger generally has more of a heavy thuddy feel to it, which I love. He paused every so often to squeeze my hands and after the second or third time, I realized he was checking to see if they were cold, which would indicate that I might be tied too tightly, prohibiting circulation. At one point, the falls wrapped around my side and I wriggled in protest at the stinging sensation that caused.

I don't know how long we went on like that, but I did hear when the alarm went off sounding that it was time to start packing up to head home. L asked if I'd had enough and nodding my assent, he untied my wrists and ankles from the frame. I suddenly remembered that we had neglected to use the anal toy during our play earlier. Since we need to review it, I mentioned to L.....then broke out in a huge grin. I guess I'll be getting more anal again soon!

He says: Just Hanging Around

Girlie days were upon us so the day had been designated an anal day. V didn't know it but I also had a special surprise for her. As usual we were up against the clock so after we unpacked the mischief bag and stripped off our clothes, I laid on my back and told V to suck me until she thought I was hard enough to fuck her. She quickly got to work as I used a butt plug to prepare her backside for what was soon to come, a hard cock between her cheeks. I had told V to wear her collar and locked it and attached the lead before we had begun. After I had worked the butt plug into her backside I used the folded over leather lead handle to smack her butt. I was surprised by the reaction, though the angle was difficult and I didn't think I had hit V's ass that hard she flinched. Oh boy, this was going to work after all. I smacked V's ass cheeks, first one and then the other. I was ready and V was ready so I slipped the butt plug from her ass and as V got on her hands and knees, head down and butt up I rolled on the condom and lubed it up.

V groaned as I slipped into her ass and I reached down to grab some paper towel to wipe the lube from my hands. You really have to keep the lube under control or it gets everywhere and into everything. As I moved my hands to V's hips I took the lead and twisted it around my right hand to put a little pressure- but not too much - on V's collar. She moaned and said "harder". I wasn't sure if she was talking about the ass fucking or the collar pulling so to be safe I both fucked her harder and increased the tension on the lead. I saw V reaching for the vibrator and heard it buzzing as she applied it to her pussy. It wasn't long before she was moaning her way to an orgasm with me close behind.

We cleaned up and rested for a few minutes and then it was time for me to show V my surprise. I took her to another room where I had assembled out of some spare bits of stuff we had lying around the office a square frame which I planned to use to secure V. I had already attached the ropes to hold her wrists and ankles. This wasn't to be a suspension but instead a method of securing her so that she would get a feel for being immobilized. I showed her how the arm ropes would easily hold her weight before tying her arms over her head and securing her legs so V was standing with them spread apart but not uncomfortably so. Then it was on with the blindfold. I worked my way through our bag of tricks, using the stingy flogger and the thudding flogger. I bit her breasts and her ass. I used the very light flogger on her breasts and managed to elicit a response where I had never been able to before. The ping pong paddle and my hand were also applied to her backside. I didn't want to overdo it too much on our first time and we didn't have a lot of time to play so after working through all the toys in various combinations it was time to let V down. As we dressed and put away the ropes V and I discussed the experience and talked about what were were going to do next, a true suspension.

Our HNT #43

 Lying nipple to nipple

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L's Naughty pic of the week #2

This was supposed to be a standard cum on her face shot but as you can see my aim was off. Sorry V.

Normally we try not to post pics where we might be identified so for this image I have blurred the parts of the image with distinguishing features.

TMI Tuesday 9/6

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She said: All Tied Up, But No Place To Go

L has been away on business for several days now and has unfortunately been experiencing some internet problems. He will be publishing his account as soon as he is able.

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L and I have joined a group of people who meet monthly to practice rope bondage and to learn new and different techniques and ties. It's no secret that L enjoys tying me up and that indeed, I enjoy being tied up. This gives us an opportunity to connect with a community of like-minded people and to continue to learn about something that interests us both. The point at these events is strictly practice, however and not play, so everyone is fully clothed.

There is such a wide variety of people there too - of course there are the people you'd expect to see there, but then there are always some surprises, like the British-accented young man, tanned and with windswept curly hair that always looks like he just came back from a sail on his yacht, or the cute boy-next-door that arrives with his diminutive girlfriend, or even the lovely eastern European woman who quietly allows her partner to suspend her from the ceiling in different configurations. The other interesting thing is that they are all so young! We are the oldest pair there - and probably by quite a lot - but we are accepted and made comfortable, nonetheless.

There are always various instructional books available that we will often borrow and thumb through looking for some new tie to try. This night, we watched some instructional videos our host provided, then L suggested I find a tie I'd like to try from the books and he'd tie me up. Looking for something new and different, I perused the book as L looked on over my shoulder. He saw one he liked and we decided to start with that one.

L wrapped the rope twice around my hips, then asked me to place my hands, palms on my butt cheeks and fingers pointing toward the floor. He then bound my wrists to keep my hands in place. Tightening the whole tie, he then took the rope down and between my legs from back to front, slid it under the rope encircling my hips and brought it back through to the back again, pulling it tight before tying it off. I do like having the rope run between my legs and suggested to L that we try this one one day when we're naked. We wanted to take a picture, so after clearing it with our host, we moved to an area of the room apart from the tying area and took some pictures, being careful not to inadvertently capture any of the other guests in our shot.

My shoulder started to get tired from that position, so L untied me and I went back to the books to find another to do. I've been interested in immobilization for a while now (I'm dying to be pallet-wrapped!) and I found a tie that would achieve that effect. Starting at my ankles and tying my legs together, L tied me from toe to shoulders like a roast of beef, using 100 feet of rope. We wanted to take a picture, but I had to be careful, being able to only shuffle inches at a time with my legs so bound. After a lot of effort, we finally made it to our picture taking area and got some shots of the tie.

The third and final tie we did for the evening was something that I had thought of on my own. I tried to explain to L what I had in mind, but he asked me to try and find a picture so he'd have a better idea. I did finally find something similar in one of the books and explained the differences between the picture and the tie I visualized. L set to work. For this tie, I lay on my back and bending my knees up to my chest, I spread my legs, holding my ankles, one in each hand. L was concerned that I would be uncomfortable in this position and kept asking me if I was okay, which I was. As he finished tying my left wrist to my left ankle, L got up to go get another piece of rope. Still concerned, L turned back to ask how long I thought I could maintain the position. I made eye contact with him and with raised eyebrows, quietly said, "You should know.......".

I think it was only then that L realized that this was almost exactly the position I often assume when he's fucking me and his face broke out in a huge grin. In fairness, he doesn't normally experience it from this vantage point! The fact that it was a great tie for fucking wasn't lost on some of the other ropers nearby, however. Several came by to see and made comments about liking the tie and how useful it might be in the bedroom. Still grinning at my earlier comment, L returned with the rope and tied my right side, finishing the tie. Messing around with the finished work, I found that I had more range of movement than I had anticipated - I could straighten my legs or bend them...open them or close them in together - it's nice to be flexible! I really wanted a picture of this tie, but we couldn't take a picture where we were and I didn't think there was any way I could move to our picture area tied in this way, though afterward I did wonder if I had gotten L to get me up to my feet if I'd have be able to travel to that area somehow. I'm pretty heavy and the room was quite crowded though, so I didn't like to suggest it on both counts.

I stayed tied up in this position for a good while before I finally asked L to untie me. He did so and soon after, our host reminded us that it was just about time to pack up and vacate the room. We bundled our rope, packed them in our bag and said goodnight to our host and fellow riggers. Stepping outside, the night was clear and warm and we held hands and crossed the busy street to get to our vehicle. As I drove L back to his car at a suburban mall, we talked about pallet wrapping and how horny I was from all the rope tying. As I dropped him off, I got a hug and a kiss and a promise to be together again soon.